Category Archives: Tennessee

First year of treasury

Has it really been a year since Treasure came into my life?  Time just flies.  Operation Biological Information seems like it was years ago.  I guess in a way it was years if you consider the cumulative process from the … Continue reading

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Beerbug

[[ UPDATE:  Effective tomorrow (Tuesday – 24 March) evening Memphis will be under a shelter-in-place directive as ordered by Mayor Strickland. ]] 😷😷😷😷😷 This is the first, last, and only post pertaining to coronavirus you will see on this blog. … Continue reading

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Bittersweet birthday

Happy Birthday to my beloved Mom. 💔 Is there a celebration in the Cosmos? 💫🔭 How I wish you were here so I could tell you this in person.  Mom, I still need you….I will always need you.  Not being … Continue reading

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Not ready for Thanksgiving

Denial only prolongs the inevitable.  Flickers of recognition light up my brainwaves and for a few seconds [if I’m lucky] or minutes [if I’m not], I am acutely aware that my Mother is gone.  Permanently.  Not on vacation or super … Continue reading

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Game Day

[[ NOTE:  While the bulk of this was written yesterday, this morning I hoped to add a few extra things and time it as the event was in full swing.  That just didn’t happen.  Between the unexpected loss of a … Continue reading

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Mom’s book, Dad’s birthday, my work

Throughout the day my brain feels the shock of the massive reality check that I cannot call Mom.  I quickly push the thought out of my head and return to my cocoon of denial.  So much has happened in the … Continue reading

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Memorial photos

I wanted to share with you all some of the beautiful photos of my Mother and other pictures that were taken at the service today.   The picture on the far right shows Mom in a tree.  This is, hands down, … Continue reading

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An appendix [or lack thereof] and an obituary

Is my timing impeccable or what?  Last night I had severe pain in my lower right abdomen.  I was literally in tears and writhing around in pain—I hardly slept and was uncomfortable throughout morning classes.  The pain became so excruciating … Continue reading

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Mom

September 7.  My precious Mother passed away at home.  Our family is reeling at the loss of our beloved matriarch.  I’m in shock, denial, disbelief, and feel completely and utterly lost.  Never have I know such an excruciating pain– and … Continue reading

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Mindfulness of the Soul 2019

[[ NOTE:  How I wish I’d composed this entry the same day I returned from the retreat, which was the original plan.  Obviously that didn’t happen.  Consumed by depression, my current feelings stand in stark contrast to the way I … Continue reading

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