Category Archives: Raleigh

Memorial Day stabbing

…..and how was your Memorial Day weekend? Maybe you spent it poolside with a cold drink.  Perhaps you enjoyed a cookout with your friends.  I got stabbed!  The assault was so brutal that the stab wound was actually the least … Continue reading

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Pitstops in Raleigh

I’ve been in Raleigh two times in the past three days.   Some of you may be very concerned by this statement.  That’s understandable.  Voluntarily venturing into that neck of the woods would have screamed ‘red flag’ in ten different languages … Continue reading

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I love Larry

Sunday night I received a phone call that left me sobbing so hard I could barely breathe.  I collapsed on the couch, making the sort of guttural sound one can only make when their heart shatters from the death of … Continue reading

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Politics, Smut, RITI

A Johnson.  Tricky Dick.  Bill.  ….and Tiny Hands?! Graydon Carter no longer serves as the editor of my favorite magazine [that would be Vanity Fair] but I know he’s riveted by these impeachment proceedings.  Because of him I will always … Continue reading

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Loaded day

The thirteenth of October. What a loaded day. Many moons ago it was a celebration of love. With time it deevolved into an odd memory. Most recently it marked the tragedy of an untimely death. Regardless, 10/13 isn’t a day … Continue reading

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Denial, Fuel Center, WOW, Stu

  Champagne bottle shaken vigorously!  A metaphor tailor made for my emotions at the moment.  In previous posts I referenced floodgates opening, dams bursting– you get the idea.  With the immense changes in my life and the gratitude overflowing, I … Continue reading

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Thomas Brian Bosi

My best friend, Thomas Bosi, was killed on 13 October 2015.  A drunk driver slammed into him and couldn’t be bothered to stop.  He died on impact.  His tragic, senseless, and untimely death sent me into a downward spiral.  Only … Continue reading

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Joey

My beloved finally came home.  One day.  That’s precisely how long we lasted before beer entered the equation.  Just 24 hours and it was off to the races.  How the hell did it even happen?  This wasn’t the plan– far … Continue reading

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Why I work from home

I despise this dreary, frigid weather.  Not only does it make me lethargic but I also feel somewhat depressed.  I know it’s only temporary and I’m not stuck in a rut.  Being sick makes this situation that much worse.  Yesterday … Continue reading

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Strep throat and romantic introspection

Ferris Bueller My son decided he needed some time off last week.  He played hooky for two consecutive days.  Monday an ‘earache’ rendered him unable to attend school.  Tuesday he didn’t even bother with a phantom ailment; he was simply … Continue reading

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